Happy 29th Baby!

Me & my stalkee - December 5, 1981

December 5, 1981 seems like a life time ago in another universe altogether.   Today is the 29th anniversary of the day I said I DO to my wonderful husband.    I just wanted to take this moment to thank him for the best 29 years of my life.  I can’t even imagine what my life would be like without him and I don’t want to think about that either.  He is without a doubt the nicest, kindest, most loving gentleman I have ever met. 

My handsome husband when we first got married

Considering how hard I had to stalk him to make him think he caught me and how short a time we knew each other before we got married I think we’ve done pretty well.  Of course it hasn’t always been a bed of roses.  What marriage has?  But we persevered and worked through our problems and came out the other side stronger than before.  I thank him for putting up with me.  I know I’m not easy to live with.  Heck…. Sometimes I can’t even stand myself!  I know I have annoying habits and can be quite a piece of work but he endures.  That’s the best way to describe putting up with me.  He endures and usually with a smile on his face.

December 2009

I am in awe of him every day.  Especially considering what kind of childhood he had.  He is a hard worker and a good provider and I know he loves me with his whole heart.  Because he’s such a hard worker there were lots of times when the kids were little that he wasn’t around because he was working but I know that they know he loves them wholeheartedly.  One of the first things we talked about when we realized we were getting serious was our desire to have children one day and how we didn’t want our children to have to go through what we did as children.  Especially what he went through.  He said he wanted to make sure before we got married that there would never be a divorce because he’d never want his kids to suffer like he did because of his parent’s divorce.  I felt the same way about divorce but for the opposite reason.  My parents just celebrated their 60th anniversary and I wanted to aspire to that. I want to be able to look across the table in my old age and still look into the eyes I looked into 29 years ago when I said I do.  Because I still do.

Just the two of us on our 28th anniversary

I still get those butterflies sometimes even now like I did back then.  I can still say I married my best friend.  I can still say now that I am a better person than I was when I met him and I am a better person with him than I would be without him.  He makes me want to be a better person.  He inspires me to do things I never felt I could.  He inspires me to want to be a better wife, a better mother, a better human being.  One of our family adages is to always leave a place better than how you found it.  That can be on an everyday small scale, like cleaning up after yourself when you go to the park on a picnic instead of leaving your trash for someone else to clean up to trying to  be a better human and leave the world in a better shape than what you found it. 

His example inspires me.  He inspires me.  Not a day goes by that I don’t know without a doubt that he loves me, with every fiber of his being.  I couldn’t ask for a better husband or a better friend.  I know without a doubt what a lucky woman I am.  And today I want to take the time to let him know just how much I love and appreciate him and all the things he does for me and our family.  You are a great man and I am so proud to be your wife.  Always and Forever.  I love you.

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14 Responses to Happy 29th Baby!

  1. Mike Timberlake says:

    Happy Anniversary!
    Congratulations on making your marriage work for so long.
    May you have many, many more.

  2. Ron says:

    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY YOU TWO!!!

    And I can say, now having met you, that you make the most beautiful couple.

    Inside and out!

    Enjoy your day to together!

    X

    P.S. Thank you for a fun time!

    • pegbur7 says:

      Thank YOU! We had a blast. Sorry hubby wasn’t feeling well and pooped out on us early! Meeting you was a blast. You are just as awesome as I knew you’d be!

  3. suzicate says:

    Beautiful. Happy anniversary to the both of us…any many, many more!

  4. Lovely! Happy Anniversary Peg!

  5. Happy Anniversary to you and your sweet hubby!

    29 years……WOW……what an accomplishment and testament to your life together. Here is to many, MANY MORE!

    🙂

  6. Jimmy says:

    Happy Anniversary to you both, being married to your best friend is a blessing and I am proud for the both of you 🙂

  7. terrepruitt says:

    ARGH! Sorry I missed wishing you a happy anniversary on your anniversary.

    But I am sure you had a great one without me.

    Happy Anniversary. Here is to 29 more! This is a BEAUTIFUL post!

    PS Shouldn’t you have said, “He is without a doubt the nicest, kindest, most loving gentleman I have ever stalked?” (Tee hee!)

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